also, i got an email last night that bugged me. apparently some girl thinks it's disgusting that we're all competing to be the sickest. i don't know about you guys, but it's not a competition for me. &i don't even have an eating disorder so please don't call me sick. this little (by little i mean huge) community is just for people to talk about what they want to talk about, most of us almost anonymously. (speaking of anonymous, no, i will not add you on facebook. stop sending requests.) if you want to rant about something you're passionate about, maybe you should start your own fucking blog instead of emailing a random person&chewing them out.
or:
i don't want to take up so very much space. stay strong today, lovelies.
xoxo
zette
p.s. haven't painted my nails lately, i've picked at them so they're very short&ugly.
Last pic is my fave.
ReplyDeleteDespite the anonymous haters I still like the community. If I didn't have ablog where else would I document the craziness going on in my head? Although these days iys minimal.
This post reminded me of hs. The year I was supersuperskinny and ranodoms kept asking if I was anorexic :/ Its all because of my screaming coach who never let us quit. What I would pay to have that man as my trainer now.
I would have gone with peppermint tea :)
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I hate it when people try to attack us for simply keeping what most of us see as a diary. If they have a problem, they don't have to read.
ReplyDeleteI love that last picture.
<3
I don't see it as a competition. Some girls that are around my height want to be like 10-15 lbs less than what I want to be. I'm not going to change my mind and lose 20 more lbs just so that I can be skinnier than them.
ReplyDeleteI love peppermint tea. I don't think I've ever had ginger.
Mmmm I love ginger tea. And ditto to Elle's comment. I think of my blog as journal and sick is definitely not the aim. The haters can read something else if they don't like it.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you. I hate it when people go out of their way to yell at someone about how what they're doing is wrong.
ReplyDeleteI don't think any of us see it as a competition.
And what's better than making friends all across the world??? Nothing.
We have a tight-knit community, and I'm proud to be a part of it.
We have a support system that many others couldn't even dream of.
Keep up your good work, love =]
xoxo
It's so hurtful, not to mention sexist, when people say 'oh it's just a bunch of dumb girls competing to be thinnest'
ReplyDeletePersonally (and don't take this the wrong way) I couldn't give a flying fuck how much any of you weigh. But I'll support you to the end to achieve the weight YOU want.
Simple as - this is a supportive friendly community. <3 you Zette!!
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I don't think of this as a competition at all (though I will admit an ounce of envy towards a number of people) I would not want to encourage anyone to compete or feel I was competing with them.
ReplyDeleteFor me this community is a place of support for people who would otherwise be alone or for people simply to have a chance to vent, which I don't think anyone can say is wrong at all!
I think this girl should look closer at what this is about before firing false accusations at us! Rant over :P
I've just had to cut my nails because they started to break, so they're too short for me to paint too :(
Your tea sounds delicious :)
Lottie x
none of us are competeling to b the sickest we are just alking about our lives thats all
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